Should a couple live together before getting married?

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    2/23/2007 6:18:19 PM

    It's a yes or no question to me.

    2/14/2007 10:30:23 PM

    "depends" is to much of a grey area
    should a couple live together if saaaay... one of them happened to of killed the previous person they lived with... nahhh
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    i think its pretty cut and dry
    Yes or No

    2/13/2007 7:10:22 PM

    I agree with Adam and Esperanto here.

    If it were in terms of the law or other types of compulsion, I'd agree, but I think as phrased it's clear that it's just, "In your opinion, all other things being equal, is it better or worse for a couple to live together before they get married...?"

    2/12/2007 11:23:53 PM

    The, "It depends" is kind of wishy washy. Plus, in a discussion, everyone understands there are some people who shouldn't live together if the boyfriend's a psychopath or immature. The issue really is if this is ever a good thing or not. That there are sometimes it isn't is a given.

    2/12/2007 10:13:35 PM

    You might be right but I think the idea is that the third response should have to specifically deal with the makeup of every individual couple.  You can think a couple SHOULD live together, you could think a couple SHOULD NOT live together or you could think that a couple SHOULD or SHOULD NOT live together based on who they are as individuals.  Or perhaps the third answer should be "this is not a decision that should be made by someone outside of the couple" kind of thing.

    2/12/2007 5:09:41 PM

    Doesn't it kind of go without saying that this is the couple's choice? To me, the third choice is amply covered by "Yes," because I don't think anyone will be expressing the opinion that a couple should live together against their will.

    2/11/2007 8:57:35 PM

    Yeh, there should be an option for "It's a personal choice" or "upto the couple"

    2/11/2007 7:52:32 PM

    I agree with Jacki.  Something like, "It's a personal choice" or "It depends on the couple".

    2/11/2007 5:58:48 PM

    i wonder if we should have an option such as:  "it's a couple's choice" or something like that ...

    2/11/2007 4:00:01 PM

    I like it!

    2/11/2007 3:56:54 PM

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